strong moral influence, as a patriotic, a literary,
a religious movement, and feel that the moral sentiment
rules man and nature. We think all other distinctions
and ties will be slight and fugitive, this of caste
or fashion, for example; yet come from year to year,
and see how permanent that is, in this Boston or New
York life of man, where, too, it has not the lease
countenance from the law of the land. Not in
Egypt or in India a firmer or more impassable line.
Here are associations whose ties go over, and under,
and through it, a meeting of merchants, a military
corps, a college-class, a fire-club, a professional
association, a political, a religious convention;—the
persons seem to draw inseparably near; yet that assembly
once dispersed, its members will not in the year meet
again. Each returns to his degree in the scale
of good society, porcelain remains porcelain, and
earthen earthen. The objects of fashion may be
frivolous, or fashion may be objectless, but the nature
of this union and selection can be neither frivolous
nor accidental. Each man’s rank in that
perfect graduation depends on some symmetry in his
structure, or some agreement in his structure to the
symmetry of society. Its doors unbar instantaneously
to a natural claim of their own kind. A natural
gentleman finds his way in, and will keep the oldest
patrician out, who has lost his intrinsic rank.
Fashion understands itself; good-breeding and personal
superiority of whatever country readily fraternize
with those of every other. The chiefs of savage
tribes have distinguished themselves in London and
Paris, by the purity of their tournure.[409]
9. To say what good of fashion we can,—it
rests on reality, and hates nothing so much as pretenders;—to
exclude and mystify pretenders, and send them into
everlasting “Coventry,"[410] is its delight.
We contemn, in turn, every other gift of men of the
world; but the habit, even in little and the least
matters, of not appealing to any but our own sense
of propriety, constitutes the foundation of all chivalry.
There is almost no kind of self-reliance, so it be
sane and proportioned, which fashion does not occasionally
adopt, and give it the freedom of its saloons.
A sainted soul is always elegant, and, if it will,
passes unchallenged into the most guarded ring.
But so will Jock the teamster pass, in some crisis
that brings him thither, and find favor, as long as
his head is not giddy with the new circumstance, and
the iron shoes do not wish to dance in waltzes and
cotillions. For there is nothing settled in manners,
but the laws of behavior yield to the energy of the
individual. The maiden at her first ball, the
countryman at a city dinner, believes that there is
a ritual according to which every act and compliment
must be performed, or the failing party must be cast
out of this presence. Later, they learn that
good sense and character make their own forms every
moment, and speak or abstain, to take wine or refuse