I had the good fortune in my youth to win the confidence of an old emigre who gave me those rudiments of education which are generally obtained by young people from women.  This friend, whose memory will always be dear to me, taught me by his example to put into practice those diplomatic stratagems which require tact as well as grace.

The Comte de Noce had returned from Coblenz at a time when it was dangerous for the nobility to be found in France.  No one had such courage and such kindness, such craft and such recklessness as this aristocrat.  Although he was sixty years old he had married a woman of twenty-five, being compelled to this act of folly by soft-heartedness; for he thus delivered this poor child from the despotism of a capricious mother.  “Would you like to be my widow?” this amiable old gentleman had said to Mademoiselle de Pontivy, but his heart was too affectionate not to become more attached to his wife than a sensible man ought to be.  As in his youth he had been under the influence of several among the cleverest women in the court of Louis XV, he thought he would have no difficulty in keeping his wife from any entanglement.  What man excepting him have I ever seen, who could put into successful practice the teachings which I am endeavoring to give to husbands!  What charm could he impart to life by his delightful manners and fascinating conversation!—­His wife never knew until after his death what she then learned from me, namely, that he had the gout.  He had wisely retired to a home in the hollow of a valley, close to a forest.  God only knows what rambles he used to take with his wife!—­His good star decreed that Mademoiselle de Pontivy should possess an excellent heart and should manifest in a high degree that exquisite refinement, that sensitive modesty which renders beautiful the plainest girl in the world.  All of a sudden, one of his nephews, a good-looking military man, who had escaped from the disasters of Moscow, returned to his uncle’s house, as much for the sake of learning how far he had to fear his cousins, as heirs, as in the hope of laying siege to his aunt.  His black hair, his moustache, the easy small-talk of the staff officer, a certain freedom which was elegant as well as trifling, his bright eyes, contrasted favorably with the faded graces of his uncle.  I arrived at the precise moment when the young countess was teaching her newly found relation to play backgammon.  The proverb says that “women never learn this game excepting from their lovers, and vice versa.”  Now, during a certain game, M. de Noce had surprised his wife and the viscount in the act of exchanging one of those looks which are full of mingled innocence, fear, and desire.  In the evening he proposed to us a hunting-party, and we agreed.  I never saw him so gay and so eager as he appeared on the following morning, in spite of the twinges of gout which heralded an approaching attack.  The devil himself could not have been better able to keep up a conversation on trifling subjects than he was.  He had formerly been a musketeer in the Grays and had known Sophie Arnoud.  This explains all.  The conversation after a time became so exceedingly free among us three, that I hope God may forgive me for it!