The girl who wishes to become a “mother’s helper” must have a natural refinement and some knowledge of social usage if she is to be a sharer in the family life of her employer.  She must use excellent English, must know how to dress quietly and suitably, and must not only know how to keep herself in the background of family life, but must be willing to remain somewhat in the shadows.

Probably no better field for the investigation of these trying questions could be found than the high school.  The ranks of employers of domestic help are being constantly recruited from the girls who were the high-school students of yesterday and have now taken their places as housekeepers.  The high school then, where the problem may be approached in an impersonal manner quite impossible later when the question has become a personal one, is the proper place in which to study the domestic service question and to attempt its standardization.

The higher positions involving domestic work are more in the nature of supervisory employment.  Many women are employed as matrons in hospitals, boarding schools, and other institutions, as housekeepers in hotels, club buildings, or in large private establishments.  These positions of course call for women who are not only thoroughly familiar with the work to be done, but are skilled in managing their subordinates who do the actual work.  They require women who have administrative ability, knowledge of keeping accounts, proper standards of living and of service, and initiative.

For the woman who has a desire to enter business for herself there are openings in the line of domestic work.  From time immemorial women have managed lodging and boarding houses, sometimes with good returns.  They are also the owners and managers of tea rooms, restaurants, laundries, dyeing and cleaning establishments, hairdressing and manicure shops, and day nurseries.  All these occupations can be followed successfully only by the woman of business ability and some technical knowledge.  They require not only knowledge but aptitude on the part of the worker.  They are usually undertaken only by women of some experience, and are the result of some earlier choice rather than the choice of the vocation-seeking girl.

[Illustration:  The true teacher represents a high type of social worker]

Teaching.  The teacher differs from the person who has merely an interest in human kind in the abstract, because she has a special interest in one particular class of human beings—­those who are most distinctly in the process of making.  She is interested in children, or she should not be teaching.  This, however, is not enough.  The girl who wishes to teach must possess certain well-defined characteristics.  Her health must be good, and her nerve force stable.  Temperamentally she must be enthusiastic and optimistic, but capable of sustained effort even in the face of apparent failure.  Her outlook must be broad, and her patience unfailing.