over how we may, modesty in the
word and grossness
in the
thought. Farmers’ wives,
daughters, and maids, cannot now allude to, or hear
named, without
blushing, those affairs of the
homestead, which they, within my memory, used to talk
about as freely as of milking or spinning; but, have
they become more
really modest than their mothers
were? Has this
refinement made them more
continent than those
rude mothers?
A jury at Westminster gave, about six years ago,
damages
to a man, calling himself a gentleman, against a farmer,
because the latter, for the purpose for which such
animals are kept, had a
bull in his yard, on
which the windows of the gentleman looked! The
plaintiff alleged, that this was
so offensive
to his
wife and
daughters, that, if
the defendant were not compelled to desist, he should
be obliged to
brick up his windows, or to quit
the house! If I had been the father of these,
at once,
delicate and
curious daughters,
I would not have been the herald of their purity of
mind; and if I had been the suitor of one of them,
I would have taken care to give up the suit with all
convenient speed; for how could I reasonably have hoped
ever to be able to prevail on delicacy,
so exquisite,
to commit itself to a pair of bridal sheets?
In spite, however, of all this ’
refinement
in the human mind,’ which is everlastingly dinned
in our ears; in spite of the ‘
small-clothes,’
and of all the other affected stuff, we have this
conclusion, this indubitable
proof, of the falling
off in
real delicacy; namely, that common prostitutes,
formerly unknown, now swarm in our towns, and are
seldom wanting even in our villages; and where there
was
one illegitimate child (including those
coming before the time) only fifty years ago, there
are now
twenty.
240. And who can say how far the employment of
men, in the cases alluded to, may have assisted
in producing this change, so disgraceful to the present
age, and so injurious to the female sex? The prostitution
and the swarms of illegitimate children have a natural
and inevitable tendency to lessen that respect, and
that kind and indulgent feeling, which is due from
all men to virtuous women. It is well known that
the unworthy members of any profession, calling, or
rank in life, cause, by their acts, the whole body
to sink in the general esteem; it is well known, that
the habitual dishonesty of merchants trading abroad,
the habitual profligate behaviour of travellers from
home, the frequent proofs of abject submission to
tyrants; it is well known, that these may give the
character of dishonesty, profligacy, or cowardice,
to a whole nation. There are, doubtless, many
men in Switzerland, who abhor the infamous practices
of men selling themselves, by whole regiments,
to fight for any foreign state that will pay them,
no matter in what cause, and no matter whether against