I can not, beholding her in the house, refrain from weeping; add not a sickness to me already sick; for I am enough weighed down with misery.  Where besides in the house can a youthful woman be maintained? for she is youthful, as she evinces by her garb and her attire; shall she then live in the men’s apartment?  And how will she be undefiled, living among young men?  A man in his vigor, Hercules, it is no easy thing to restrain; but I have a care for thee.  Or can I maintain her, having made her enter the chamber of her that is dead?  And how can I introduce her into her bed?  I fear a double accusation, both from the citizens, lest any should convict me of having betrayed my benefactress, and lying in the bed of another girl; and I ought to have much regard toward the dead (and she deserves my respect).  But thou, O lady, whoever thou art, know that thou hast the same size of person with Alcestis, and art like her in figure.  Ah me! take by the Gods this woman from mine eyes, lest you destroy me already destroyed.  For I think, when I look upon her, that I behold my wife; and it agitates my heart, and from mine eyes the streams break forth; O unhappy I, how lately did I begin to taste this bitter grief!

CHOR.  I can not indeed speak well of thy fortune; but it behooves thee, whatever thou art, to bear with firmness the dispensation of the Gods.

HER.  Oh would that I had such power as to bring thy wife to the light from the infernal mansions, and to do this service for thee!

ADM.  Well know I that thou hast the will:  but how can this be?  It is not possible for the dead to come into the light.

HER.  Do not, I pray, go beyond all bound, but bear it decently,

ADM.  Tis easier to exhort, than suffering to endure.

HER.  But what advantage can you gain if you wish to groan forever?

ADM.  I know that too myself; but a certain love impels me.

HER.  For to love one that is dead draws the tear.

ADM.  She hath destroyed me, and yet more than my words express.

HER.  Thou hast lost an excellent wife; who will deny it?

ADM. Ay, so that I am no longer delighted with life.

HER.  Time will soften the evil, but now it is yet in its vigor[48] on thee.

ADM.  Time thou mayst say, if to die be time.

HER.  A wife will bid it cease, and the desire of a new marriage.

ADM.  Hold thy peace—­What saidst thou?  I could not have supposed it.

HER.  But why? what, wilt not marry, but pass a widowed life alone?

ADM.  There is no woman that shall lie with me.

HER.  Dost thou think that thou art in aught benefiting her that is dead?

ADM.  Her, wherever she is, I am bound to honor.

HER.  I praise you indeed, I praise you; but you incur the charge of folly.

ADM. Praise me, or praise me not; for you shall never call me bridegroom.