Nupa of one particular man, but at the same
time he has no exclusive right to her as she is
the
Piraungaru of certain other men who
also have the right of access to her. Looked
at from the point of view of the man his
Piraungaru
are a limited number of the women who stand in
the relation of
Nupa to him. There
is no such thing as one man having the exclusive
right to one woman; the elder brothers, or
Nuthie,
of the latter, in whose hands the matter lies,
will give one man a preferential right, but at
the same time they will give other men of the
same group a secondary right to her. Individual
marriage does not exist either in name or in practice
in the Urabunna tribe. The initiation in regard
to establishing the relationship of
Piraungaru
between a man and a woman must be taken by the
elder brothers, but the arrangement must receive
the sanction of the old men of the group before
it can take effect. As a matter of actual practice
this relationship is usually established at times
when considerable numbers of the tribe are gathered
together to perform important ceremonies, and
when these and other important matters which require
the consideration of the old men are discussed
and settled. The number of a man’s
Piraungaru
depends entirely upon the measure of his power and
popularity; if he be what is called “urku,”
a word which implies much the same as our word
“influential,” he will have a considerable
number; if he be insignificant or unpopular, then
he will meet with scanty treatment. A woman may
be
Piraungaru to a number of men, and as
a general rule the women and men who are
Piraungaru
to one another are to be found living grouped
together. A man may always lend his wife, that
is, the woman to whom he has the first right, to another
man, provided always he be her
Nupa, without
the relationship of
Piraungaru existing
between the two, but unless this relationship
exists no man has any right of access to a woman.
Occasionally, but rarely, it happens that a man attempts
to prevent his wife’s
Piraungaru from
having access to her, but this leads to a fight,
and the husband is looked upon as churlish.[223]
The evidence up to this point is presented with a
view to establishing the fact that the men in early
society had the strongest interest, both on sexual
and on property grounds, in retaining a hold on the
women of their group; and as an extreme expression
of this interest I wish to consider the system of
elopement in early society. While there is no
system of government by chiefs among the Australian
tribes which we have been considering, the influence
of the old men is very powerful in all matters.
The initiatory ceremonies, covering periods of months
and occurring at intervals during a period of years,
and involving great hardship to the young men, are
calculated to inspire them with great respect for
the old men and for the traditional practices of the