Continental Monthly, Vol. I, No. V, May, 1862 eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 309 pages of information about Continental Monthly, Vol. I, No. V, May, 1862.

Continental Monthly, Vol. I, No. V, May, 1862 eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 309 pages of information about Continental Monthly, Vol. I, No. V, May, 1862.
strikingly contrasts his position then with his approach to London twenty years later, as ambassador from France, driving in coach-and-four through towns whose authorities came out to welcome him in the usual pompous manner, and, while in London, giving magnificent balls in one of the stately houses, and perhaps numbering among his guests some of the blooming children he had once passed, now expanded into full-blown and gorgeous flowers of aristocracy.  These are, of course, uncommon instances; but they teach that the most brilliant present may have had the darkest past; that there is always ground for hope, and that the caprices of fortune, if we take no higher view of them, are mysterious enough.

The man who has been overtaken by reverses, need not look far abroad to see that a system of compensation is pretty generally dealt out in this life.  Set him adrift in the world, with scarcely a dollar; let him walk, almost a beggar, through the same streets he once trod, a man of wealth, and it would be idle to assert that he will not be almost overwhelmed by the force of bitter recollections.  In proportion as other days were happy, will these be miserable.  As Dante has truly said, the memory of former joys, so far from affording relief to the wretched, serves only to embitter the present, as they feel that these joys have forever passed away.  But unless his lot be one of unusual calamity, as time blunts the keenest edge of sorrow, he must be devoid of both philosophy and religion, if he does not feel that life with a mere competence still has many joys.  It is unquestionably true that one’s style of living has not much to do with the sum of his happiness, though this is said with no disposition to undervalue even the luxuries of life.  So far from the finest houses in a city having the greatest air of comfort about them, I think rather the reverse is the case.  No dwellings have a snugger look than many of the plain, two-story houses in all our cities; no children merrier than those that play around their doors; no manlier fathers than those that struggle bravely for their support.  One would suppose that Stafford House, with its wealth of pictures and furniture, and its beautiful views over Hyde Park, must contain much to add to the pleasure of its possessors; but probably the sum of happiness enjoyed by this noble family has been very little increased by these things.  I believe that palaces are more envied by ‘outsiders’ than enjoyed by their owners.  In proportion to the number of each, probably far more of those dreadful tragedies that cast ineffaceable gloom over whole families, have occurred in these splendid houses than in plainer ones.  Our Fifth Avenue, with all its grandeur, is one of the gloomiest looking streets in the world, as strangers generally remark.  But as all preaching is vain against many a besetting sin, so will all the talking in the world do little to convince men that happiness does not lie in externals.  One generation does not learn much from its predecessors in this respect; it seems to have been intended that each should acquire its own experience.  The task of talking beforehand is therefore an unprofitable one; but it is a satisfaction to feel that when much that is thought indispensable has been taken from us, there still remains that which can afford us happiness.

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