Etiquette eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 752 pages of information about Etiquette.

Etiquette eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 752 pages of information about Etiquette.
Will you come up here on the sixth of September and stay until the sixteenth?  It would give us all the greatest pleasure.  There is a train leaving Broadway Station at 8.03 A.M. which will get you to Dustville Junction at 5 P.M. and here in time for supper.
It is only fair to warn you that the camp is very primitive; we have no luxuries, but we can make you fairly comfortable if you like an outdoor life and are not too exacting.  Please do not bring a maid or any clothes that the woods or weather can ruin.  You will need nothing but outdoor things:  walking boots (if you care to walk), a bathing suit (if you care to swim in the lake), and something comfortable rather than smart for evening (if you care to dress for supper).  But on no account bring evening, or any good clothes!

    Hoping so much that camping appeals to you and that we shall see
    you on the evening of the sixth,

    Very sincerely yours,
    Martha Kindhart.

=THE INVITATION BY TELEPHONE=

Custom which has altered many ways and manners has taken away all opprobrium from the message by telephone, and with the exception of those of a very small minority of letter-loving hostesses, all informal invitations are sent and answered by telephone.  Such messages, however, follow a prescribed form: 

“Is this Lenox 0000?  Will you please ask Mr. and Mrs. Smith if they will dine with Mrs. Grantham Jones next Tuesday the tenth at eight o’clock?  Mrs. Jones’ telephone number is Plaza, one two ring two.”

The answer: 

    “Mr. and Mrs. Huntington Smith regret that they will be unable to
    dine with Mrs. Jones on Tuesday the tenth, as they are engaged
    for that evening.

Or

    “Will you please tell Mrs. Jones that Mr. and Mrs. Huntington
    Smith are very sorry that they will be unable to dine with her
    next Tuesday, and thank her for asking them.”

Or

    “Please tell Mrs. Jones that Mr. and Mrs. Huntington Smith will
    dine with her on Tuesday the tenth, with pleasure.”

The formula is the same, whether the invitation is to dine or lunch, or play bridge or tennis, or golf, or motor, or go on a picnic.

“Will Mrs. Smith play bridge with Mrs. Grantham Jones this
afternoon at the Country Club, at four o’clock?”

“Hold the wire please * * * Mrs. Jones will play bridge, with
pleasure at four o’clock.”

In many houses, especially where there are several grown sons or daughters, a blank form is kept in the pantry: 

Will
with M
on the
at o’clock.  Telephone number
Accept
Regret

These slips are taken to whichever member of the family has been invited, who crosses off “regret” or “accept” and hands the slip back for transmission by the butler, the parlor-maid or whoever is on duty in the pantry.

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