Golden Steps to Respectability, Usefulness and Happiness eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 148 pages of information about Golden Steps to Respectability, Usefulness and Happiness.

Golden Steps to Respectability, Usefulness and Happiness eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 148 pages of information about Golden Steps to Respectability, Usefulness and Happiness.

Next to Temperance in importance, I would rank the habit of INDUSTRY.  We were evidently made for active occupation.  Every joint, sinew, and muscle plainly shows this.  A young person who is an idler, a drone, is a pest in society.  He is ready to engage in mischief, and to fall into vice, with but little resistance.  It is an old saying, that “an idle brain is the devil’s workshop.”  Those who are not actively employed in something useful, will be very likely to fall into evil practices.  Industry is one of the best safeguards against the inroads of vice.  The young, whatever may be their condition, or however abundantly they may believe their future wants already provided for, should actively engage in some honorable occupation or profession—­in something that will benefit mankind.  They should be fired with the high and noble ambition of making the world better for their living in it.  Who can wish to pass a blank existence?  Yet this is the life of every idler, poor or rich.  Be stirring in anything which is useful—­anything which will make others happy.  Then you will not have lived in vain.  Behold how a good man can devote his life to labors for the benefit of others.  Would you partake of the immortal fame of a Howard?  Imitate, to the extent of your ability, the example of industrious benevolence he has placed before the world.

    “From realm to realm, with cross or crescent crowned,
     Where’er mankind and misery are found,
     O’er burning sands, deep waves, or wilds of snow,
     Mild Howard journeying seeks the house of woe. 
     Down many a winding step to dungeons dank,
     Where anguish wails aloud and fetters clank,
     To caves bestrewed with many a mouldering bone,
     And cells whose echoes only learn to groan;
     Where no kind bars a whispering friend disclose,
     No sunbeam enters, and no zephyr blows;—­
     He treads, inemulous of fame or wealth,
     Profuse of toil and prodigal of health;
     Leads stern-eyed Justice to the dark domains,
     If not to sever, to relax his chains;
     Gives to her babes the self-devoted wife,
     To her fond husband liberty and life,—­
     Onward he mores! disease and death retire;
     And murmuring demons hate him and admire.”

To young women industry is equally essential and commendable.  An idle woman is a poor and worthless thing.  For what does she imagine she was created?  Of what service is she to the world?  In what respect would not the world be as well without her?  A do-nothing young lady is most assuredly pitied and despised by those whose good opinion she is most anxious to secure.

It is not enough that a young woman can play skilfully, sing delightfully, dance gracefully, dress fashionably, and has an abundant flow of “small talk.”  The world looks beyond these outward ornaments, and asks—­Has she a good heart and gentle disposition?  Is she affectionate and forbearing?  Can she rule her temper and control her tongue?  Does she respect and obey her parents?  Has she a well-cultivated and well-stored mind?  Is she industrious, prudent, economical?  Is she able and willing to engage in household duties?  Accomplishments are not to be overlooked.  But the qualities above enumerated are essential, indispensable, to the character of a good daughter and a useful wife.

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