Occasional Thoughts in Reference to a Vertuous or Cristian life eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 123 pages of information about Occasional Thoughts in Reference to a Vertuous or Cristian life.

Occasional Thoughts in Reference to a Vertuous or Cristian life eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 123 pages of information about Occasional Thoughts in Reference to a Vertuous or Cristian life.
far fitter to be Learners than Teachers of the Principles of Vertue and Wisdom; the great Foundation of both which consists in being able to govern our Passions, and subject our Appetites to the direction of our Reason:  A Lesson hardly ever well learnt, if it be not taught us from our very Cradles.  To do which requires no less than a Parents Care and Watchfulness; and therefore ought undoubtedly to be the Mothers business to look after, under whose Eye they are.  An exemption from which, Quality (even of the highest degree) cannot give; since the Relation between the Mother and Child is equal amongst all Ranks of People.  And it is a very preposterous Abuse of Quality to make it a pretence for being unnatural.  This is a Truth which perhaps would displease many Ladies were it told them, and therefore, probably, it is that they so seldom hear it:  But none of them could be so much offended with any one for desiring hereby to restrain them from some of their expensive and ridiculous Diversions, by an employment so worthy of Rational Creatures, and so becoming of maternal tenderness, as it is just to be with them for neglecting their Children:  A Fault that women of Quality are every way too often guilty of, and are perhaps more without excuse for, than for any other that they are ordinarily taxable with.  For tho’ it is to be fear’d that few Ladies (from the disadvantage of their own Education) are so well fitted as they ought to be, to take the care of their Children, yet not to be willing to do what they can herein, either as thinking this a matter of too much pains for them, or below their Condition, expresses so senseless a Pride, and so much want of the affectionate and compassionate Tenderness natural to that Sex and Relation, that one would almost be tempted to question whether such Women were any more capable of, than worthy to be the Mothers of Rational Creatures.

But natural Affection apart, it should be consider’d by these, that no one is Born into the World to live idly; enjoying the Fruit and Benefit of other Peoples Labours, without contributing reciprocally some way or other, to the good of the Community answerably to that Station wherein God (the common Father of all) has plac’d them; who has evidently intended Humane kind for Society and mutual Communion, as Members of the same Body, useful every one each to other in their respective places.  Now in what can Women whose Condition puts them above all the Necessities or Cares of a mean or scanty Fortune, at once so honourably and so usefully, both to themselves and others, be employ’d in as in looking after the Education and Instruction of their own Children?  This seems indeed to be more particularly the Business and Duty of such than of any others:  And if example be necessary to perswade them that they will not herein do any thing mis-becoming their Rank, the greatest Ladies amongst us may be assur’d that those of a Condition superior to theirs, have heretofore been so far from thinking it any abasement to them

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