far fitter to be Learners than Teachers of the Principles
of Vertue and Wisdom; the great Foundation of both
which consists in being able to govern our Passions,
and subject our Appetites to the direction of our
Reason: A Lesson hardly ever well learnt, if it
be not taught us from our very Cradles. To do
which requires no less than a Parents Care and Watchfulness;
and therefore ought undoubtedly to be the Mothers
business to look after, under whose Eye they are.
An exemption from which, Quality (even of the highest
degree) cannot give; since the Relation between the
Mother and Child is equal amongst all Ranks of People.
And it is a very preposterous Abuse of Quality to make
it a pretence for being unnatural. This is a
Truth which perhaps would displease many Ladies were
it told them, and therefore, probably, it is that
they so seldom hear it: But none of them could
be so much offended with any one for desiring hereby
to restrain them from some of their expensive and
ridiculous Diversions, by an employment so worthy
of Rational Creatures, and so becoming of maternal
tenderness, as it is just to be with them for neglecting
their Children: A Fault that women of Quality
are every way too often guilty of, and are perhaps
more without excuse for, than for any other that they
are ordinarily taxable with. For tho’ it
is to be fear’d that few Ladies (from the disadvantage
of their own Education) are so well fitted as they
ought to be, to take the care of their Children, yet
not to be willing to do what they can herein, either
as thinking this a matter of too much pains for them,
or below their Condition, expresses so senseless a
Pride, and so much want of the affectionate and compassionate
Tenderness natural to that Sex and Relation, that one
would almost be tempted to question whether such Women
were any more capable of, than worthy to be the Mothers
of Rational Creatures.
But natural Affection apart, it should be consider’d
by these, that no one is Born into the World to live
idly; enjoying the Fruit and Benefit of other Peoples
Labours, without contributing reciprocally some way
or other, to the good of the Community answerably to
that Station wherein God (the common Father of all)
has plac’d them; who has evidently intended
Humane kind for Society and mutual Communion, as Members
of the same Body, useful every one each to other in
their respective places. Now in what can Women
whose Condition puts them above all the Necessities
or Cares of a mean or scanty Fortune, at once so honourably
and so usefully, both to themselves and others, be
employ’d in as in looking after the Education
and Instruction of their own Children? This seems
indeed to be more particularly the Business and Duty
of such than of any others: And if example be
necessary to perswade them that they will not herein
do any thing mis-becoming their Rank, the greatest
Ladies amongst us may be assur’d that those
of a Condition superior to theirs, have heretofore
been so far from thinking it any abasement to them