III. That no one be actually married,
till she hath the Child-bed
Pillows, &c. ready Stitched, as likewise
the Mantle for the Boy quite
finished.
These Laws, if I mistake not, would effectually restore the decay’d Art of Needle-work, and make the Virgins of Great Britain exceedingly Nimble-finger’d in their Business.
There is a memorable Custom of the Grecian Ladies in this particular, preserv’d in Homer, which I hope will have a very good Effect with my Country-women. A Widow in Ancient Times could not, without Indecency, receive a second Husband, till she had Woven a Shrowd for her deceased Lord, or the next of Kin to him. Accordingly, the Chaste Penelope having, as she thought, lost Ulysses at Sea, she employed her time in preparing a Winding-sheet for Laertes, the Father of her Husband. The Story of her Web being very Famous, and yet not sufficiently known in its several Circumstances, I shall give it to my Reader, as Homer makes one of her Wooers relate it.
’Sweet Hope she gave to every Youth
apart,
With well-taught Looks, and a deceitful
Heart:
A Web she wove of many a slender Twine,
Of curious Texture, and perplext Design;
My Youths, she cry’d, my Lord but
newly dead,
Forbear a while to court my widow’d
Bed,
’Till I have wov’n, as solemn
Vows require,
This Web, a Shrowd for poor_ Ulysses’
Sire.
His Limbs, when Fate the Hero’s
Soul demands,
Shall claim this Labour of his Daughter’s
Hands:
Lest all the Dames of Greece my Name despise,
While the great King without a Covering
lies.
Thus she. Nor did my Friends mistrust
the Guile.
All Day she sped the long laborious Toil:
But when the burning Lamps supply’d
the Sun,
Each Night unravell’d what the Day
begun.
Three live-long Summers did the Fraud
prevail.
The Fourth her Maidens told th’
amazing Tale.
These Eyes beheld, as close I took my
Stand,
The backward Labours of her faithless
Hand:
’Till watch’d at length, and
press’d on every Side,
Her Task she ended, and commenc’d
a Bride.’
[Footnote 1: Public Mourning for Q. Anne, who died Aug. 1, 1714.]
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No. 607. Friday, October 15, 1714.
’Dicite Ioe Paean, et Ioe bis dicite
Paean:
Decidit in casses praeda petita meos.’
Ovid.
Mr. SPECTATOR,
’Having in your Paper of Monday last [1] published my Report on the Case of Mrs. Fanny Fickle, wherein I have taken Notice, that Love comes after Marriage; I hope your Readers are satisfied of this Truth, that as Love generally produces Matrimony, so it often happens that Matrimony produces Love.
’It perhaps requires more Virtues
to make a good Husband or Wife, than
what go the finishing any the most shining
Character whatsoever.


