29 June.

That man notices there is some ill-feeling between me and his wife, and he explains it in a manner worthy of him.  It seems to him that I hate her because she preferred him to me.  He fancies that my resentment is nothing but offended vanity.  Truly only a husband can look upon it in this light.  Consequently he tries to make it up to her by his caresses, and treats me with the kind indulgence of a generous victor.

How vanity blinds some people!  What a strange creature he is!  He goes every day to the Straubinger hotel, watches the couples promenading on the Wandelbahn, and with a certain delight puts the worst construction upon their mutual relations.  He laughs at the husbands who, according to his views, are deceived by their wives; every new discovery puts him into better humor, and his eyeglass is continually dropping out and put back again.  And yet the same man who considers conjugal faithlessness such an excellent opportunity for making silly jokes, would consider it the most awful tragedy if it happened to himself.  Since it is only a question of other people it is a farce; touching his own happiness it would cry out to heaven for vengeance.  Why, you fool!—­go to the looking glass, see yourself as you are, your Mongolian eyes, that hair like a black Astrachan cap, that eyeglass, those long shanks; enter into yourself and see the meanness of your intellect, the vulgarity of your character,—­and tell me whether a woman like Aniela ought to remain true to you for an hour!  How did you manage to get her, you spiritual and physical upstart?  Is it not an unnatural monstrosity that you are her husband?  Dante’s Beatrice, marrying a common Florentine cad, would have been better matched.

I had to interrupt my writing because I felt I was losing my balance; and yet I fancied myself resigned!  May Kromitzki rest easy; I do not feel that I am any better than he.  Even if I supposed I was made of finer stuff than he, it would be small comfort, since my deeds are worse than his.  He has no need of hiding anything, and I am obliged to play the hypocrite, take him always into account, conceal my real feelings, deceive and circumvent him.  Can there be anything meaner than pursuing such a course of action, instead of taking him by the throat?  I abuse him in my diary.  Such underhand satisfaction even a slave may permit himself towards his master.  Kromitzki never could have felt so small as I did in my own eyes when I committed a multitude of littlenesses, devised cunning plans to make him take separate lodgings and not stop in the same house with Aniela.  And after all, I gained nothing.  With the simple sentence, “I wish to be near my wife” he demolished all my plans.  It is simply unbearable, especially as Aniela understands every movement of mine, every word and scheme.  I fancy she must often blush for me.  All this taken together makes up my daily food.  I do not think I shall be able to bear it much longer, as I cannot be equal to the situation,—­which simply means:  I am not villain enough for the conditions in which I live.