Children's Rights and Others eBook

Nora Archibald Smith
This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 147 pages of information about Children's Rights and Others.

Children's Rights and Others eBook

Nora Archibald Smith
This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 147 pages of information about Children's Rights and Others.

But, lo! the child of this training was as great a failure as the child of austerity and gloom.  He was capricious, lawless, willful, disobedient, passionate; he thought of no one’s pleasure save his own; he cared for his parents only in so far as they could be of use to him; and like a wild beast of the jungle he preyed upon the life around him, and cared not whom he destroyed if his appetites were satisfied.

“In every field of opinion and action, men are found swinging from one extreme to the other of life’s manifold arcs of vibration.”  This perpetual movement may be the essential condition of existence, for death is cessation of motion; or it may be a never-ending effort of the mind to reach an ideal which discloses itself so seldom as to make its permanent abiding-place a matter of uncertainty.  Doubtless there is somewhere a middle to the arc, and in the lapse of ages the needle may at last find the “pole-point of central truth” and be at rest; but as yet, in every department of labor and thought, it is vibrating, and after tarrying a while at one extreme it swings unsatisfied back to the other.

Nowhere are these extremes more noticeable than in the government of children.  Centuries ago, in the patriarchal period, the father of the family seems also to have exercised the functions of a criminal judge; but the uniting of the two sets of duties in one person does not appear to have inspired the children with insurmountable awe, for laws are found both in Numbers and Deuteronomy fixing the penalty of disobedience, and of the striking of a parent by a child.

Still later, the Roman father possessed arbitrary powers of life and death over his children; but it is probable that natural affection and a more advanced civilization commonly made the law a dead letter.

Though the world in time grew to feel that life belonged to the being who held it, not to those who gave it birth, still discipline has for ages been directed more to the body than to the mind, with an idea apparently that the pains of the flesh will save the soul.  Pious parents until within recent dates have regarded the flogging of children as absolutely a religious obligation, and many a tender mother has steeled her heart and strengthened her arm to give the blows which she regarded as essential to the spiritual well-being of her child.

The birch rod and the Bible were the Parents’ Complete Guide to domestic management in Puritan days, and no one can deny that this treatment, though rather a heroic one, seems to have produced fine, strong, self-denying men and women.

Governor Bradford, in 1648, speaks feelingly of the godliness of a Puritan woman whose office it was to “sit in a convenient place in the congregation, with a little birchen rod in her hand, and keep the children in great awe;” and, from the frequency with which chastisement is mentioned in early Puritan records, it seems pretty clear that the sober little lads and lasses of the day did not suffer from over-indulgence.

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