Mother

Jerkins' mother is both a source of support and the medium through which she learns societal standards that define black women's limits. When Jerkins was a child, her mother takes her for her first chemical treatment to straighten her hair. She also warns Jerkins not to go in pools without permission, since it may damage her hair. She attempts to protect Jerkins from becoming a "fast-tailed girl" and warns her about men's desires, that she must defend herself from. Her mother sets the stage upon which Jerkins' insecurities about her body and sexuality are manifest.

When Jerkins goes to college, her mother exerts a supportive presence. She joins Jerkins on her trip to Japan, where marvels along with her daughter at how well they are treated in public and commercial spaces. When Jerkins writes the article on Beyoncé’s Lemonade, they watch it together and her mother...