How do the girls' invitations for their 8th birthday parties and their Christmas lists at age 11 show how their personalities are already being shaped? Include specific examples for each girl.

Cite at least three examples of times when a note that seems unimportant actually foreshadows something that will occur later.

Compare and contrast Carmen with her soon-to-be-stepsister Krista. How does Carmen make their differences clear? What do they have in common?

What do you think the relationship is like between Bridget and her parents? Cite at least three examples of notes or comments to back up your opinion.

Discuss the role of symbolism in the book. Specifically, what do the pants symbolize for the four main characters?

Discuss several ways of staying in touch with friends. Which are best for friends you see frequently? Which are best for those who live far away or...