1. There is a parallel between the lives of Al Kiss and Henry Schiller, and they are alike in some ways. Al Kiss takes a real interest in Henry and tries to give him advice, the kind of advice a father would give. Analyze the relationship between Al and Henry.

2. Research the lifestyle and beliefs of Jews in America.

3. Many comedians have been Jewish. Research the careers of a few and discuss any common characteristics with Kiss.

4. Read Me Me Me Me Me: Not a Novel and report on how Kerr's early life influenced her writing.

5. Read any other M. E. Kerr book and compare its quality and depth to Him She Loves?

6. Since Louise Fitzhugh was an important friend and influence on Kerr, reading Harriet the Spy (1964) can add to understanding Kerr. Compare Harriet with the young Marijane in Me...