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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 3 - Exploring Your Ideas About Love.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. What is the first step in post-affair healing?
(a) Discussing the secret nature of the affair.
(b) Managing emotions until feelings can normalize.
(c) Discovering the identity of the lover.
(d) Making an appointment to see a marriage counselor.

2. The overall length of the introduction can be described with which term?
(a) Non-existent.
(b) Brief.
(c) Lengthy.
(d) Varies by edition.

3. What is one of the main purposes of the introduction?
(a) To advise the reader in their relationship.
(b) To explain how affairs begin.
(c) To create interest in the text.
(d) To establish themes of the book.

4. If the unfaithful partner feels committed to the lover, how could this affect their feelings about the affair?
(a) They may be angry.
(b) They may not want to reconnect.
(c) They may feel distracted.
(d) They may not feel guilty.

5. Inadequacy in the relationship is felt by whom?
(a) Both male and female hurt partners.
(b) Female hurt partners.
(c) Neither of the hurt partners.
(d) Male hurt partners.

Short Answer Questions

1. The unfaithful partner may experience physical changes from romantic love that can be expected to last how long?

2. What is the fundamental difference between the hurt and unfaithful partners' reactions to the affair?

3. The book presents a bulleted list of which type of expectations of love and marriage?

4. The author of the book can be described in which way?

5. When an unfaithful partner returns to find their marriage damaged, they often feel which emotion?

(see the answer key)

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