According to her testimony, Harris pulled into the driveway of Tarnower's house. The house was dark and she was disappointed that Tarnower had not left a light on for her. He was already asleep when she went upstairs to the bedroom. She wanted to talk to him but he abruptly told her to be quiet and go to sleep. She entered the bathroom, saw a nightgown and hair curlers that were not hers, and threw the curlers at the dresser, breaking the glass. Tarnower appeared at the bathroom door and, for the first time ever, struck her across the face and told her to get out. She took a gun out of her purse, placed it against her head, and pulled the trigger. At that moment Tarnower jumped for it from behind her and was shot in the hand. A struggle for the gun ensued...