BIDDEFORD, Maine - Beneath a bright white tent in Biddeford last weekend, there were hamburgers and name tags like any other convention, but the shop talk was grief. The woman who rushed to arrange counseling at Newton's Oak Hill Middle School after April's fatal bus crash was able to hear tips from the woman who walked into the chaos at Oregon's Thurston High School after Kip Kinkel opened fire in the cafeteria. Judy Oliver, who spends weekday evenings helping children work through their grief at The Children's Room in Arlington, could compare notes about "Volcano Rooms" across the country, w...
