The Washington Post, October 3rd, 1990
Q. I was invited to a "commitment"-a wedding of sorts. The "bride" did not want to give up her alimony from her ex-husband, so she and her new lover committed themselves to each other in a mock wedding. She bought a dress, he wore a suit, the band played and champagne was served. Am I obligated to buy a committing present? A. Even for a second wedding, presents are not considered obligatory, although they may certainly be offered. Guests may express their good will simply by attending the event and writing charming letters wishing the couple happiness. But somehow, Miss Manners does not detect...
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