Parenting is a big part or a person's life and when becoming a parent you should think about your decision now if life, and try to make sure you won't change your mind about it later in life. There is many different things which should be talked about with your partner and thought about by yourself. These can be from choosing to be a parent or not, to adoption, to things later down the road like if you divorce later what will happen to the kid, or one of you dies what will happen. You should also think about discipline the child. Dealing with a young offender as a kid, or having a mentally challenged child. All these decisions in your parenting life are very important and you cant think about all these at once so the whole time while you're a parent until your child moves out...