Thus I have, with the truth and freedom of the tenderest affection, told you all your defects, at least all that I know or have heard of.  Thank God, they are all very curable; they must be cured, and I am sure, you will cure them.  That once done, nothing remains for you to acquire, or for me to wish you, but the turn, the manners, the address, and the graces, of the polite world; which experience, observation, and good company; will insensibly give you.  Few people at your age have read, seen, and known, so much as you have; and consequently few are so near as yourself to what I call perfection, by which I only, mean being very near as well as the best.  Far, therefore, from being discouraged by what you still want, what you already have should encourage you to attempt, and convince you that by attempting you will inevitably obtain it.  The difficulties which you have surmounted were much greater than any you have now to encounter.  Till very lately, your way has been only through thorns and briars; the few that now remain are mixed with roses.  Pleasure is now the principal remaining part of your education.  It will soften and polish your manners; it will make you pursue and at last overtake the graces.  Pleasure is necessarily reciprocal; no one feels, who does not at the same time give it.  To be pleased one must please.  What pleases you in others, will in general please them in you.  Paris is indisputably the seat of the graces; they will even court you, if you are not too coy.  Frequent and observe the best companies there, and you will soon be naturalized among them; you will soon find how particularly attentive they are to the correctness and elegance of their language, and to the graces of their enunciation:  they would even call the understanding of a man in question, who should neglect or not know the infinite advantages arising from them.  ‘Narrer, reciter, declamer bien’, are serious studies among them, and well deserve to be so everywhere.  The conversations, even among the women, frequently turn upon the elegancies and minutest delicacies of the French language.  An ‘enjouement’, a gallant turn, prevails in all their companies, to women, with whom they neither are, nor pretend to be, in love; but should you (as may very possibly happen) fall really in love there with some woman of fashion and sense (for I do not suppose you capable of falling in love with a strumpet), and that your rival, without half your parts or knowledge, should get the better of you, merely by dint of manners, ‘enjouement, badinage’, etc., how would you regret not having sufficiently attended to those accomplishments which you despised as superficial and trifling, but which you would then find of real consequence in the course of the world!  And men, as well as women, are taken by those external graces.  Shut up your books, then, now as a business, and open them only as a pleasure; but let the great book of the world be your serious study; read it over and over, get it by heart, adopt its style, and make it your own.