Our Deportment eBook

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The china wedding occurs on the twentieth anniversary of the wedding-day.  Invitations should be issued on exceedingly fine, semi-transparent note-paper or cards.  Various articles for the dining or tea-table or for the toilet-stand, vases or mantel ornaments, all are appropriate on this occasion.


The silver wedding occurs on the twenty-fifth marriage anniversary.  The invitations issued for this wedding should be upon the finest note-paper, printed in bright silver, with monogram or crest upon both paper and envelope, in silver also.  If presents are offered by any of the guests, they should be of silver, and may be the merest trifles, or more expensive, as the means and inclinations of the donors incline.


The close of the fiftieth year of married life brings round the appropriate time for the golden wedding.  Fifty years of married happiness may indeed be crowned with gold.  The invitations for this anniversary celebration should be printed on the finest note-paper in gold, with crest or monogram on both paper and envelopes in highly-burnished gold.  The presents, if any are offered, are also in gold.


Rarely, indeed, is a diamond wedding celebrated.  This should be held on the seventy-fifth anniversary of the marriage-day.  So seldom are these occurrences that custom has sanctioned no particular style or form to be observed in the invitations.  They might be issued upon diamond-shaped cards, enclosed in envelopes of a corresponding shape.  There can be no general offering of presents at such a wedding, since diamonds in any number are beyond the means of most persons.


It is not, as before stated, required that an invitation to an anniversary wedding be acknowledged by a valuable gift, or indeed by any.  The donors on such occasions are usually only members of the family or intimate friends, and may act at their own discretion in the matter of giving presents.

On the occasion of golden or silver weddings, it is not amiss to have printed at the bottom of the invitation the words “No presents,” or to enclose a card announcing—­

“It is preferred that no wedding gifts be offered.”


The invitations to anniversary weddings may vary something in their wording, according to the fancy of the writer, but they are all similar.  They should give the date of the marriage and the anniversary.  They may or may not give the name of the husband at the right-hand side and the maiden name of the wife at the left.  What the anniversary is should also be indicated.

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