Narrative of the Life and Adventures of Henry Bibb, an American Slave, Written by Himself eBook

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My last effort to recover my family.—­Sad tidings of my wife.—­Her degradation.—­I am compelled to regard our relation as dissolved forever.

In view of the failure to hear any thing of my wife, many of my best friends advised me to get married again, if I could find a suitable person.  They regarded my former wife as dead to me, and all had been done that could be.

But I was not yet satisfied myself, to give up.  I wanted to know certainly what had become of her.  So in the winter of 1845, I resolved to go back to Kentucky, my native State, to see if I could hear anything from my family.  And against the advice of all my friends, I went back to Cincinnati, where I took passage on board of a Southern steamboat to Madison, in the State of Indiana, which was only ten miles from where Wm. Gatewood lived, who was my former owner.  No sooner had I landed in Madison, than I learned, on inquiry, and from good authority, that my wife was living in a state of adultery with her master, and had been for the last three years.  This message she sent back to Kentucky, to her mother and friends.  She also spoke of the time and manner of our separation by Deacon Whitfield, my being taken off by the Southern black-legs, to where she knew not; and that she had finally given me up.  The child she said was still with her.  Whitfield had sold her to this man for the above purposes at a high price, and she was better used than ordinary slaves.  This was a death blow to all my hopes and pleasant plans.  While I was in Madison I hired a white man to go over to Bedford, in Kentucky, where my mother was then living, and bring her over into a free State to see me.  I hailed her approach with unspeakable joy.  She informed me too, on inquiring whether my family had ever been heard from, that the report which I had just heard in relation to Malinda was substantially true, for it was the same message that she had sent to her mother and friends.  And my mother thought it was no use for me to run any more risks, or to grieve myself any more about her.

From that time I gave her up into the hands of an all-wise Providence.  As she was then living with another man, I could no longer regard her as my wife.  After all the sacrifices, sufferings, and risks which I had run, striving to rescue her from the grasp of slavery; every prospect and hope was cut off.  She has ever since been regarded as theoretically and practically dead to me as a wife, for she was living in a state of adultery, according to the law of God and man.

Poor unfortunate woman, I bring no charge of guilt against her, for I know not all the circumstances connected with the case.  It is consistent with slavery, however, to suppose that she became reconciled to it, from the fact of her sending word back to her friends and relatives that she was much better treated than she had ever been before, and that she had also given me up.  It is also reasonable to suppose that there might have been some kind of attachment formed by living together in this way for years; and it is quite probable that they have other children according to the law of nature, which would have a tendency to unite them stronger together.

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