When I mentioned the drain upon a woman’s vitality to bring three robust children into life in five years, you said it was only a “natural function,” and referred to the old-time families of ten and twelve children.  Your grandmother had fourteen, you said, and was the picture of health at seventy-five.

My own grandmother gave ten children to the world.  But we must recollect how different was the environment in those days.

Our grandmothers lived in the country, and knew none of the strain and excitement of these modern times.  The high pressure of social and financial conditions, as we know them, the effort to live up to the modern standards, the congested city life and the expensive country life, all these things make motherhood a different ordeal for our women than our grandmothers.  Where our grandfathers took their share of the care and guidance of children, and the children came up in a wholesome country fashion, our men to-day are so driven by the money gadfly that they can only whirl around and around and attend “to business,” and all the care of the children falls upon the mother, or else upon the nurses and governesses, who in turn are a care and a worry to the wife.

You assured me Edna had all the assistants in caring for her children she wanted, but you did not realize that every paid employe in a household is, as a rule, just so much more care to the mistress, not less than a tax on the husband’s purse and, consequently, on his time.

What Edna craves is your love, your attention, your sympathy, not the service of paid domestics.  She wants you to notice her fading bloom, and to take her in your arms and say, tenderly, “Little girl, we must get those old roses back.  And we must go away for a new honeymoon, all alone, and forget every care, even if we forget the babies for a few days.”

One little speech like that, one little outing like that, would do more toward driving away the demon of jealousy than all I could by a thousand sermons and homilies.

I remember at your own board you made me uncomfortable talking about my complexion, which you chose to say was “remarkable for a woman of my age.”  And then you proceeded to describe some wonderful beauty you had seen at the Country Club the day previous, and all the time I saw the tears hidden back under the lids of Edna’s tired eyes, and a hurt look on her pale face.  Do you imagine she was jealous of your compliment to me? or of your praise of the girl’s beauty at the Country Club?

No, no, my dear Mr. Gordon, I know Edna too well to accuse her of such petty feelings.  She was only hurt at your lack of taste in accenting her own lost bloom by needlessly emphasizing another’s possession of what had once been hers.

Yet she called upon the young lady that very day and invited her to luncheon, and even then you indulged in pronounced admiration of the guest’s cheeks, gallantly requesting your wife to have the bouquet of carnation pinks removed from the table, as they were so shamed by the complexions of the ladies.